[He looks Lea in the eyes, now getting a bit more serious. This was a very delicate area they were approaching.]

I appreciate ya tryin' ta help, but... what he went through... what he's gunna go through... He shouldn't be pushed into it. Ya know how hard it is ta lose folks ya care about, yer life turned upside down... I know it's a lot ta ask, but, please... don't go proddin' in there. At least not before ya let me know.

... We've all been through more than we deserve.